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NOM National Newsletter: Riding the Marriage Roller Coaster

It's been an extraordinary roller-coaster week for marriage!

MARYLAND VOTE FOR SSM - NOT A DONE DEAL!

As I write, the Maryland House Judiciary Committee has still not been able to vote to pass same-sex marriage, despite threats and arm-twisting from leadership.

In Maryland, the House of Delegates was supposed to be an easy vote for gay marriage. Done deal, they all said, like they always do. (Continue reading.)

MARYLAND SSM SPONSORS JUMP SHIP

Meanwhile the press and the pols were shocked this week to find suddenly that black Dems were jumping ship.

Melvin Stukes (a black Democrat from Baltimore), a co-sponsor of the bill, pulled out. (Continue reading.)

MARYLAND LAWYER ERIKA COLE WARNS MD HOUSE AGAINST SSM

Here's another thing you didn't see on the mainstream news coverage: a respected church lawyer, Erika Cole, testifying at the House hearings, in which gay marriage advocates repeatedly urged legislators to exercise "leadership" by voting for gay marriage, whether their constituents want it or not. Click here to see Erika's testimony and get the rest of this story.

PRES. OBAMA'S DOMA DISASTER

Nationally, the biggest issue is Pres. Obama's DOMA "Disaster," as Maggie calls it.

Obama's refusal to defend DOMA is already backfiring on him.

At NOM we try to stay ahead of the curve. (Continue reading)

DEFENDING DOMA – WILL THE HOUSE INTERVENE?

Now the big question is: Will the House intervene to protect DOMA?

Thousands of NOM's supporters have petitioned the House leadership. Thank you—keep it up—we're on the verge of winning a great, great victory!

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PROP 8 CASE NEWS: COUNTY CLERK SEEKS STANDING IN CASE

On the Prop 8 case, this week saw another very important and totally underreported development too: Chuck Storey, the newly elected county clerk of Imperial County, is back in court, asking the Ninth Circuit for standing to intervene to uphold Prop 8! (Continue reading.)

ILLINOIS B&B OWNERS SUED FOR REFUSING SSU CEREMONY

Two bed-and-breakfast owners in Illinois are being sued after refusing to host a same-sex civil union ceremony. The harm to the gay couple is simply their emotional distress, not the lack of a nice place to hold a ceremony (because already another bed-and-breakfast has offered to host their ceremony). (Continue reading.)

CHRISTIANS NEED NOT APPLY—FROM GREAT BRITAIN TO ILLINOIS

In our sister democracy in Great Britain, a truly shocking example of how far gay-rights advocates will go to shut down religious people came to light this week: The British courts ruled that Christians can be excluded from fostering children unless they affirm that homosexual sex and marriage is good... (See the video and read the rest of the story.)

...And this morning I woke up to read this ominous Chicago Tribune headline: "State probes religious foster care agencies over discrimination."

ANGRY SSM PROTESTERS TARGET RELIGIOUS SERVICES FOR PROTEST/DISRUPTION

Meanwhile, I wanted to make sure that in the big Obama DOMA news last week you didn't miss the latest installment of our Breaking News videos. This one is on a new tactic launched by the Gay Liberation Network in Chicago: organized protests during religious services.

Watch the video and continue reading this story...

Let me end on a happy note: Check out this video, the winner of the Ruth Institute's Reel Love Challenge contest, which asked college students to answer the question: Is Lifelong Married Love possible?

Gotta get back to work. We have so many good fights to fight! And thanks to you, very soon we'll have so many victories to celebrate!

NOM National Newsletter - February 10, 2011

Dear Marriage Supporter,

Marriage is on a roll!

In Providence yesterday, a hearing was held about two bills: one which would redefine marriage--and one sponsored by Rep. Jon Brien which would refer the question to the people of Rhode Island.

Both Maggie Gallagher and Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse were there, so I had a live report.

It was jammed! The media is reporting roughly similar-sized crowds (both in Providence and Rhode Island)--so that tells you how many of our folks turned out. On “Capitol TV,” behind the witnesses testifying were a sea of blue “one man, one woman equals marriage” signs.

Congrats to Chris Plante of NOM-Rhode Island and to all the hard-working Rhode Islanders who showed up to make sure their voices are heard!

You know who didn't show up to the hearing to testify? The speaker of the House. Or the governor.

Why not? First gay speaker in Rhode Island history. A governor who says gay marriage is his economic development plan in his inaugural address (I kid you not!). Why didn't they show?

I don't know for sure, but word on the street is: They don't have the votes.

Maggie tells me it was very clear at the hearings that the reps on the Judiciary Committee are struggling. They are getting hammered with phone calls and letters from their constituents. Keep it up--you are lighting a fire!

As one young woman told Maggie in the hallways just before the hearing, “113 people should not get to decide for all of Rhode Island what marriage is. The people should have the right to vote!”

Maryland also had a great turnout for our side; thank you.

After Maggie testified in Maryland, I was so moved to get this note from a woman we have never met who drove for two hours to attend the hearing:

Greetings to Brian Brown and all of the hardworking staff at NOM:

"I am a Marylander and drove two hours with a friend yesterday to attend the SSM hearing in Annapolis. I am so glad I spent the day doing this. I've only been recently getting politically active, as I see my Christian values being torn apart by angry wolves in the marketplace of ideas. Enough, I say.

I just wanted to share my appreciation of the fine testimony Maggie Gallagher gave to the senate panel, a panel that was clearly hostile to supporters of traditional marriage. She articulated a wonderful statement about the purpose of marriage, which is not to give people access to federal benefits, or to make them feel happy, or included, but to provide the proper environment for procreating and raising the next generation. Marvelous! My quiver of arguments just had a giant arrow added to it.

I thought you might like to know, however, what was going on in another part of the building from where Maggie was. Because there were so many people attending the hearing, they opened up an overflow room on the first floor, where I sat with my friend. Unlike the actual hearing room, where no clapping, cheering, or other sound could be made, it was easy to take the temperature of the attendees in the overflow room. It was quickly apparent that many of the attendees were traditional marriage supporters: black, white, old, young.... Once traditional marriage witnesses took the stand, the excitement level in the overflow room went up several notches, and there was a lot of applause regarding the arguments being made not only by Maggie, but by Alliance Defense Fund and other pro-traditional marriage/family values groups.

Although Maryland is extremely liberal, and many government officials want to see progressive ideals instituted in this state, I was encouraged to see that this is not the slam-dunk for same-sex marriage proponents that I thought it was.

Don’t believe the mainstream media's message of despair!

“Although I realize the deck is stacked against us, I can see now that same-sex marriage will never be the law of the land here. If it gets out of committee, and if it passes the senate, and if it passes the house, there will immediately be a referendum to let us vote on it, and I suspect Marylanders are never going to vote for it. I have the first ray of hope I've felt about the issue in this state for some time.

I've been supporting NOM to the best of my ability for the last year or so, and yesterday I saw my dollars hard at work. Thank you for continuing to tirelessly stand up to defend traditional marriage. Your efforts are noticed and appreciated.”

Christine ended up on an energized and optimistic note I really want to share with you:

Thank YOU Christine, so much, and thanks to everyone from all the organizations that are working so hard to protect marriage.

These are still very close votes in Rhode Island and Maryland. We haven't won yet. Keep the pressure on!

But the good news and the momentum keeps building.

In Indiana, a state marriage amendment just passed a critical hurdle in the House Judiciary Committee. We expect a vote on the floor soon--maybe today--and we fully expect another encouraging victory for marriage. The marriage amendment has already passed the Senate several times, so we don't expect problems there.

We've helped in Indiana, but the people we really need to thank for this victory is the Alliance Defense Fund, Focus on the Family, Curt Smith of the Indiana Family Institute and Micah Clark of AFA-Indiana. You guys rock! We are all in your debt and we will all be cheering your great Indiana victory for marriage!

And Wyoming is another state with a great marriage victory pending--one which has been flying under the media's radar (natch!).

Thanks to ADF, Focus, and especially WyWatch Family Action, a marriage amendment just passed the Senate 20-10--a two-thirds margin required and achieved!

On the House side, a marriage amendment passed through the House Judiciary committee by a 6-3 vote on Tuesday. A full vote is pending in the House.

A state DOMA statute protecting marriage just passed the full House too.

So many people of all races, creeds, and colors are working together to defend a great good, and a great truth: To make a marriage you need a husband and wife.

I've got to get back to work. Maggie's over covering speeches by presidential contenders at CPAC, the Conservative Political Action Conference, for how well they address why social conservatism matters to conservatism--do they speak for life and marriage?
Check it out over at the American Principles Project's getconservative.com blog. Or you can find it up on the NOM site too.

I'm grateful to God for these victories. They are your victories, in defense of His truth about marriage.

God bless you,

Brian Brown

Brian S. Brown
President
National Organization for Marriage

P.S. As we fight for marriage in state after state, we need your help! Please consider whether you can make a monthly gift of $5 or $10, or a one-time gift of $50 or $100, to speak out for marriage.

Manhattan Dec. Weighs-In on HRC's NOM Sniping

From our friends at the Manhattan Declaration:

The Human Rights Campaign, a $40 million dollar-a-year organization dedicated to striping America of a feasible definition of marriage, set its sights on the National Organization for Marriage through a video “exposing” their true ambitions.

A laughably spooky voice begins the video by asking, “Ever heard of NOM?” The voice, which sounds like it’s right out of murder investigation television show, then goes on to give NOM (the National Organization for Marriage) free ad space. Continue reading.

The author concludes by noting that HRC’s media coordinator has not responded to requests about the video and its claims.

Haley Barbour, potential 2012 GOP Presidential Candidate, Comes out Swinging for Marriage!

Haley Barbour included a special shout-out to marriage in his recent “State of the State” address:

“I’m proud that Mississippi cast the highest percentage of its vote of any state in the country for the Defense of Marriage Act, defining marriage as a union between one man and one woman.”

You can read his entire speech here and watch it on Youtube here.

"What is Marriage?" Makes SSRN’s Top Ten List

In just one month the Harvard essay of Prof. Robert George and his two colleagues, Sherif Girgis and Ryan Anderson has vaulted to the Top Ten list of most-viewed papers on SSRN, according to this note from Public Discourse editor Ryan Anderson:

We just received an e-mail from SSRN with the following message: "Your paper entitled, "What is Marriage?" was recently listed on SSRN's Top Ten download list for All SSRN Journals. As of 01/12/2011 your paper has been downloaded 24,013 times. You may view the abstract and download statistics at the URL: http://papers.ssrn.com/abstract=1722155."

Gay Rights Advocates Desperate to Gain Ground

Our own Brian Brown is quoted in this Christian Post Article:

National Organization for Marriage President Brian Brown believes the renewed push for redefining marriage in both [Maryland and Rhode Island] is a reaction to pro-values gains throughout the country.

“In most states we have positive legislation to protect marriage,” stated Brown.

So far, New Hampshire, New Mexico, Iowa, Minnesota and Wyoming are all working to repeal or ban same-sex marriage. Maryland Republican lawmakers are also introducing an inclusive civil union law as an alternative to same-sex marriage.

Brown said gay rights advocates are now desperate. “I think supporters of redefining marriage are looking [at] any place they can gain ground,” he shared.

Brown believes attempts in both Rhode Island and Maryland will come up short. In Rhode Island, Brown said, “The people just don’t want same-sex marriage.” Brown pronounced the same sentiment to be true in heavily Democratic Maryland.

In the event that the Maryland state legislature tries to approve a gay marriage bill, he said NOM will work with advocates on the ground to collect the signatures necessary for a referendum.

“In every state where the people had the chance to vote, in both deep blue and deep red states, they have voted against same-sex marriage,” Brown emphasized.

New Chilean Org Takes on SSM, Bioethics

The center for the investigation of Bioethics in Chile has debuted a new website (in Spanish, of course).

You may also view the various topics they discuss here.

Google can provide a (limited but helpful) translation of the site into English here. Please feel free to share this site with your Spanish-speaking friends!

Marriage amendment to be introduced in W.Va. Legislature

From the local Herald-Dispatch:

“Lawmakers are set to introduce and sponsor a marriage protection amendment to the state constitution during the upcoming legislative session, according to a press release issued by the West Virginia Family Foundation.

… “We call on the Legislature to stop obstructing the people's right to join 30 other states in constitutionally protecting the definition of marriage as only between one man and one woman," [said Kevin] McCoy.”

Chafee, Fox Ignore Bishop's Statement; re-affirm their commitment to SSM

FROM THE PROVIDENCE JOURNAL: "Responding to criticism from the Roman Catholic Bishop Thomas J. Tobin, Governor Lincoln D. Chafee promised on Friday that if passed by the General Assembly this session, he would sign legislation recognizing same-sex marriage." [Continue reading.]

West Virginia - Family Group Announces Introduction of Marriage Protection Amendment

A bipartisan coalition of lawmakers during the upcoming legislative  session will for the sixth straight year introduce and sponsor a Marriage Protection Amendment to the state constitution, a statewide family values group that authored the amendment said Thursday [continue reading]

SSM Advocates Take New Tactic because "...words have meaning"

Rhode Island legislators push for same-sex marriage while New York group seeks to redefine the terms. Check it out.

NOM Reacts to 9th Circuit Ruling

(WASHINGTON, D.C.) - Today the 9th Circuit issued several rulings, denying standing to Imperial County's deputy clerk, and referring the question of whether Proponents of Prop 8 ("Protect Marriage") have standing to appeal Judge Vaughn Walker's ruling to the California Supreme Court.

Judge Stephen Reinhardt also issued a concurrence in which he called the argument Proponents for Prop 8 had made for standing "strong." He also criticized the lawyers in this case for the "inexplicable" choices that have made orderly review of Judge Walker's decision so difficult.

"Judge Reinhardt clearly agrees with us about two things: First, a federal trial court judge cannot possibly have the last word about whether the U.S. Constitution requires gay marriage; and second, super lawyers Olson and Boies are working overtime in tricky ways to make sure their supposedly invincible case for gay marriage does not get reviewed by any higher court," said Brian Brown, President of the National Organization for Marriage

"We are confident Judge Walker's ruling will not be permitted to stand without challenge, and that Olson and Boies' tactics will backfire"

Excerpt from Judge Reinhardt's concurrence:

"Although that matter must be decided by the Supreme Court of California, Proponents advance a strong argument on this point. Thus, in the end, there may well be standing to maintain this appeal, and the important constitutional question before us may, after all, be decided by an appellate court-ours, the Supreme Court, or both-and may apply to California as a whole, instead of by being finally decided by a trial court, or by default, in only two counties, or in none. As a result, the technical barriers and the inexplicable manner in which the parties have conducted this litigation may in the end not preclude an orderly review by the federal courts of the critical constitutional question that is of interest to all Americans, and particularly to the millions of Californians who voted for Proposition 8 and the tens of thousands of same-sex couples who wish to marry in that state."

To schedule an interview with Brian Brown, President of NOM, please contact Mary Beth Hutchins (x105), mhutchins@crcpublicrelations.com, or Elizabeth Ray (x130), eray@crcpublicrelations.com, at 703-683-5004.

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National Organization for Marriage Launches No-H8 Campaign Against Pink T-Shirt Video, Calls on Responsible Same-Sex Marriage Advocates to Reject Donations


"Stop Using Shocking Video With Real Children Promoting Profanity and Hatred to Raise Money for Your Cause!"
-Brian Brown, President of NOM


(WASHINGTON, D.C.) - The
National Organization for Marriage (NOM) today launched a nationwide video entitled “Protect The Kids: Stop the Exploitation” in response to and exposing a fundraising effort by angry gay marriage activists that sells T-shirts and uses young children shouting obscenities to raise money for their cause.

“The American Foundation for Equal Rights, Equality California, Courage Campaign, and Lambda Legal have certainly reached a low point displaying a poor lack of judgment for refusing to disassociate themselves from this video of real children shouting angry profanities as props to raise money for their cause,” stated Brian Brown, President of NOM.

“We call on responsible LGBT organizations to return any donations raised as a result of this shock video, in which adults put profanities in the mouths of children and encourage what can only be called open hatred of their friends, neighbors and fellow citizens who believe marriage is the union of husband and wife.”

NOM is asking these gay marriage activists to reject all funding from this profane campaign and calls on the video’s producers to end immediately this organized effort to exploit children. “No matter how much we may disagree with each other, ads like these that promote incivility and hatred leave no room for discourse,” Brown added. “By signing NOM’s Kid Petition, you are asking the above activists to stop using innocent children shouting obscenities to make your case. Is that too much to ask?”

To schedule an interview with Brian Brown, President of the National Organization for Marriage, or Maggie Gallagher, Chairman of the Board, please contact Elizabeth Ray, eray@crcpublicrelations.com, at 703-683-5004 ext. 130.

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Help Stop Radical SSM Activists Obscenity-Laden Attempt to Corrupt our Children

Radical activists have released an angry and degrading new video that they are using to garner publicity and raise money for same-sex marriage advocacy. Already watched by nearly 2 million people, the 2-minute video is laced with dozens of angry obscenities, even putting obscene language in the mouths of 8 and 10-year-old kids.

Words fail me in trying to describe it . . . it’s vile, sickening and incredibly sad to see the way these children have been exploited for cheap shock value. I find myself thinking – is this the kind of thing they want to teach our children?

This video has been produced by a handful of radical gay marriage activists – but it’s being used to fund some of the nation’s largest same-sex marriage groups. NOM is calling on these same-sex marriage organizations – including the Courage Campaign, Lambda Legal, Equality California, and the American Foundation for Equal Rights – to reject these ads by their supporters. We call on them to reject all funding from this obscene campaign, and to demand an immediate end to this angry and hateful effort that is degrading our conversation and exploiting young children.

Click here to sign the petition urging these major same-sex marriage groups to publicly reject this hateful effort.

Then invite five friends to join you in signing. There is simply no place in American dialogue – no matter how much we may disagree with each other – for such filthy and exploitive ads. Ever.  Much less during this season of Christmas as well celebrate the birth of the Holy Child.

As we approach Christmas on Saturday, I ask you to consider a gift for marriage this year. We are on the verge of unprecedented opportunities – and great risks as well – that will shape the future of marriage in our nation. Our opponents certainly understand the stakes, and are raising millions to force their agenda on an unwilling nation.