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Katherine Kersten: SSM Coming to Minnesota, "Punishing those who dare to disagree"

Katherine Kersten in the Minneapolis Star Tribune asks a key question:

Same-sex marriage supporters assure us that redefining marriage is no big deal.  “How will my same-sex marriage hurt you?" they ask, expecting the answer to be “it doesn't.” Don't believe it.

Same-sex marriage, she writes, “would transform American law and social life. That's because it's grounded in a radical idea: that male-female marriage, an institution rooted in human biology and intended to create the best setting to beget and raise children, is just irrational bigotry. . .” She continues:

If you think I'm exaggerating, listen to Mark Dayton, who may be Minnesota's next governor. In 2004, he told a crowd of gay-rights activists that people who support a constitutional amendment to protect male-female marriage are "the forces of bigotry and hatred" who "spew hatred and inhumanity," according to the Star Tribune.

Today, we're already seeing the implications of this view play out:

•If gay marriage becomes law, churches and religiously affiliated organizations may be denied tax exemption, on grounds that their beliefs are "contrary to public policy." The threat is "credible" and "palpable," according to Robin Wilson, a law professor at Washington and Lee University. In New Jersey, for example, a Methodist ministry had to fight government officials to defend its tax exemption for a facility after declining to allow two lesbian couples to use it for civil union ceremonies.

•Some faith-based charities may have to stop providing social services. Catholic Charities in Boston -- which specialized in adoptions involving hard-to-place kids -- had to give up adoption after gay marriage began in Massachusetts. Religiously affiliated hospitals, rehabilitation centers and homeless shelters that get government contracts or deal with Medicaid and Medicare may be similarly threatened.

•Public employees may be disciplined or dismissed if they refuse to approve of homosexual acts. Recently, for example, a professor who taught Catholic theology at the University of Illinois was fired after a student accused him of hate speech. The professor had written in an e-mail that Catholic theology teaches that "sexual acts are only appropriate for people who are complementary, not the same," and had said he agrees with this view.

•In June, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the Christian Legal Society at the University of California, Hastings, College of the Law could be denied status as a registered student group because it holds that the only rightful form of sex is between a man and woman within marriage -- a view that violates the school's nondiscrimination policy on sexual orientation. The ruling may sound the death-knell for orthodox Christian, Jewish and Muslim campus groups.

•Small-business owners could be liable under discrimination laws if they decline to provide goods or services in contexts that violate their beliefs -- providing wedding photography at a same-sex marriage, for example. Boards that license professionals, including psychologists and social workers, may require approval of same-sex marriage for licensure or admission to professional schools.

She points to California as as a proof text for how gay marriage advocates believe dissenters should be treated:

In California in 2008, we saw what's in store for traditional-marriage supporters who stand up for their beliefs. Same-sex marriage activists there vandalized property, targeted jobs and defaced houses of worship. Here in the Twin Cities, leaders of the recent Gay Pride celebration also refused to tolerate dissent. They went to court in an unsuccessful attempt to bar a lone Christian evangelist from handing out Bibles in the public park where their event took place.

In its early years, the gay-rights movement marched under the banner of tolerance. No more. Activists are demanding conformance with and approval of their agenda, and are punishing those who dare to disagree.

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Polygamy Hurts Society, Canadian Scholar Says

Can a society embrace gay marriage and continue to ban polygamy?  Canada is in the process of finding out.  University of B.C. scholar Joseph Henrich is among the experts testifying in this British Columbia trial:

"To illustrate the harm, Henrich provides the court with an example of polygyny's cruel arithmetic.

In a hypothetical society of 20 men and 20 women, 12 men with the highest status marry 12 women. (It's always only the highest-ranking men in polygynous societies that get multiple wives.) Then, the top five take a second wife and the top two men take a third. Finally, the top guy takes a fourth. The result is that 58 per cent of the marriages are monogamous.

But -and this is the big deal -it means 40 per cent of the men remain unmarried. Yes, 40 per cent.

And Henrich's example is conservative. Blackmore has more than 20 wives. FLDS prophet Warren Jeffs, who is in jail in Utah, has more than 80. And the studies Henrich cites -from historical, frontier-American research to contemporary work done in countries where polygamy is legal -indicate that groups of unmarried men create havoc.

"For males, getting married (monogamously) is a prophylactic against engaging in crime, social disruption and other socially undesirable activities," he writes."

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His argument presumes that women will not practice polyandry, or be satisfied with same-sex marriages. . . Will the courts let him so presume? Stay tuned. . .

Does Tolerance Require Teaching Montana 10-Year-Olds About Sex Acts?

Forgive the vulgarity. But this is what Montana is proposing to teach ten-year-olds in public schools, so we guess we have to be willing to post about it. More evidence of the new regime's intentions. Parents in Montana are protesting what CNN describes as "gay-friendly progressive health-education." What does that mean? Read and weep:

Hundreds Debate Gay-Friendly, Progressive Health-Education Plan
Hundreds of parents turned up at a recent school board meeting to debate a proposed comprehensive health curriculum in Helena, Mont. At the heart of the debate surrounding the curriculum, which includes plans for teaching disease prevention, anatomy, nutrition, and more, is an extensive chart that details what elements of human sexuality will be taught to which students. If implemented, students in kindergarten would learn to properly identify and name body parts. The next year, in first grade, they would be introduced to the concept "that people 'can love people of the same gender and people of another gender.'" By second grade, the students would learn that using anti-gay slurs is hurtful. In fifth grade, students would discuss homosexual relationships and learn that sex "includes but is not limited to vaginal, oral, or anal penetration." In middle school, students would cover sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy, leaving sexual orientation for high school. Some parents, who argue that the new plan starts teaching students about sex when they're too young to learn about it, want to know "where that age-appropriateness comes from." Brian Ackerman, a parent with three daughters in the Helena school system, told HLN's Prime News that "parents should be told 'who decided this, when did they decide it and how did they decide it?'" CNN reported. But the plan also has its supporters. "It sounds like they are teaching body parts and things that are facts of life," said Cathy Areu, publisher of a women's magazine and former high-school teacher. "I feel more comfortable with my daughter learning about this in a classroom than from a boy in the hallway."

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Read the original story at CNN.com.

Marriage Tour Update: Albany

What a time we’ve had this week! With three rallies in our four days on the road, things have been going great . . . and we’re just getting started!

We started off in Augusta with close to 200 people on Wednesday, had roughly 150-200 in Manchester on Thursday, and around 100 in Albany today. People coming out from all across New England, leaving energized, excited, and ready to make a difference for marriage.

Today in Albany, it was a treat to see so many friends in the crowd, especially from last year’s marriage battle in the New York Senate. All those who came got to see Rev. McGuire in action – a good friend who was up at the Capitol almost continually last fall, and whose unflagging efforts helped rally the troops to stop same-sex marriage.

While we’ve been on the road, one of our staff told me I had to check out some of the gay marriage bloggers covering our tour. Some of them want so badly for our tour to fail . . . I think some of them have left the world of reality-based blogging.

One blogger claimed we had just 20 people turn out in Maine. You can look at the pictures for yourself and tell me there were only 20 people in Augusta on Wednesday! And even the pictures don’t do justice to the crowd of nearly 200.

Albany

My favorite so far, though, is the blog this morning “reporting” that our Albany rally was poorly attended . . . and the rally hadn’t even started yet!

They so badly want us to fail that they’re even willing to say the rally failed before it even happens.

I think I know why our opponents are so concerned about this tour. People are excited. We’re energizing people everywhere we go. They’re catching a vision for how we can work together to protect marriage all across the nation. That’s why I’m taking my family on a 6000 mile trip this summer – so I can meet you, and people like you, all across the eastern U.S., energizing and growing our army of marriage activists in every state.

Our opponents have also scheduled opposing rallies, each with the unique personality of the local group. Equality Maine held a separate rally inside the State House in Augusta. Obviously we believe in civil debate, and everything was very civil in Maine.  In New Hampshire, the protestors stood silently across the street with some crazy signs (you can check out some of the pics at www.marriagetour2010.com).

But today’s protest was in a league all its own. Those of you following our Twitter feed may have already seen my comments: “Silliest. Protest. Ever.” was how I put it earlier today.  Right in the middle of Dr. Morse’s presentation, a bunch of people with umbrellas started walking up on stage. I told them we had a permit for the space, but they refused to leave.  Shortly, the Capitol police came out and said to the protestors -- You know that the marriage tour has a permit here . . . you should leave. But still they hung around, holding their rainbow-colored umbrellas.

Protesters in AlbanyProtesters in Albany

I had to smile. There’s a reason political campaigns don’t crash opponents’ rallies – only the crashers come out looking silly. Eventually they’ll figure it out. If there’s one thing almost all Americans agree on, it’s the value of playing fair.

On a more serious note, though, there was another message they were sending today. One woman had brought her family out to the rally with a picnic lunch. During the rally she moved to the back to nurse her baby. A bunch of guys brought their rainbow umbrellas and stood directly in front of her, blocking her view of the stage. She asked them to move, and they refused. We have a video with the woman from afterword, and will be posting it later, but . . . Wow. Classy.

Protesters in Albany

When I spoke again after Dr. Morse, I asked the audience: “What would the world look like if William Wilberforce, or the abolitionists, or Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. had backed down when people heckled them or tried to intimidate them.  This is an example of the same thing. Some of our opponents would love to intimidate us, but we just take it with a smile and don’t get upset."

Finally, as I finished speaking, the protestors started chanting that Dr. Martin Luther King supported equality. But then our bumper music started, they realized no one was paying any attention, and they quickly slipped away.

Another terrific stop. Almost everyone at the rally signed up for our Two Million for Marriage Campaign. Lots of enthusiasm for standing firm on marriage in New York.

Tonight, we’re on the road again, destination Providence, Rhode Island. We’re looking forward to a great rally tomorrow afternoon at 2pm at the State House in Providence. Tell your friends to come on out!

Next Steps in Argentina

Official response (in Spanish) from Argentines for the Children on next steps:

Lo que pasó:

Lamentamos profundamente la aprobación de esta ley, porque estamos convencidos de que no es buena para la sociedad y de que daña a la familia y al interés superior del niño. Los argumentos ya los expusimos y los debatimos.

Lamentamos, quizás todavía más, la forma en que esta ley se ha sancionado.

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Gay Married Couples Redefine Fidelity, Too

Why stop at the word marriage? Other words can be redefined as well.  Take "monogamy"and "fidelity."  They call them "San Francisco relationships," as the SF Chronicle is proudly reporting on the release of a new study of over 500 couples. The study, by Colleen Hoff, shows that the majority of gay couples are not monogamous and that "planned infidelity" was good for their relationships -- including marital ones, according to the Chronicle.
 
The Chronicle reports on a second study by an Oakland gay couple Lanz Lowen and Blake Spears who interviewed 86 couples with at least eight years together in open relationships:

Three out of 4 people described non-monogamy as a positive thing, and said it gave them a sexual outlet without having to lie. Participants reported it helped relationships survive by providing honest options and minimizing deceit, tension and resentment. Some "played" independently, others as a threesome, and about 80 percent agreed to tell all or some details of their encounters, the rest preferring a "don't ask, don't tell" policy.

Sexual fidelity, these "San Francisco" relationships assert is not necessary in marriage.  "At least half those interviewed were married, having taken their vows during one of the two brief times when it was legally sanctioned in the city or the state.

"It's a redefinition of marriage," Spears said.

Yes it is.

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Augusta Rally a Huge Success – Thank You!

Many, many thanks to all of you who came out (even with the threat of thunderstorms!) to stand for marriage as we kicked off our Summer for Marriage RV Tour yesterday in Augusta! Marriage Tour: Augusta Rally Marriage Tour: Augusta Rally

It was wonderful to meet so many of you, and your energy and enthusiasm made for the perfect start to our 33-day, 23-city tour that will take us from the Northeast to the upper Midwest, then down to Florida before finishing in our nation’s capital on August 15th.

Take a minute to check out our tour coverage at www.marriagetour2010.com, including photos and videos from yesterday, ongoing tour coverage, and much more! Even the press is starting to pay attention, and we’ll have the media coverage posted as well.

We are simply thrilled that so many of you came out yesterday, and for those who didn’t make it, you missed a good time as we took a public stand for marriage, made new friends, and left inspired with messages from Rev. Emrich, Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse, and Charla Bansley.

If you’re able, in addition to standing publicly at the state house yesterday (or for those who couldn’t), please consider standing with us financially during this summer tour. Over the next five weeks, we will be meeting with thousands of new marriage supporters all across the eastern U.S. Your gift of $25, $50, or even $100 would be a great help as we take the message of marriage directly to the American people, meeting new activists, supporters and friends all along the way. Click here to make your donation today!

We can win this battle for the future of marriage in our nation. And with God’s help, we will!

Associated Press photo of NOM RV

A National Organization for Marriage recreational vehicle gets set to hit the road, Wednesday, July 14, 2010, in Augusta, Maine. The National Organization for Marriage kicked off its 'One Man, One Woman' bus tour in Maine, where residents last year rejected a law that would have allowed same-sex couple to wed.

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Argentina Video: “Un país entero se esta poniendo de pie”

Court strikes challenge to DC gay marriage law

Disappointing news out of DC this morning, but this one isn’t over yet . . .

(AP) WASHINGTON — D.C.'s highest court has ruled against opponents of the city's same-sex marriage law, saying they cannot ask voters to overturn it.

Opponents had wanted to challenge a law that took effect in Washington in March allowing same-sex couples to marry. They attempted to get approval to put an initiative on the ballot asking city voters to define marriage in the city as between one man and one woman. But city officials balked, saying a district human rights law barred initiatives that would authorize discrimination.

On Thursday, the D.C. Court of Appeals ruled 5-4 that officials had the authority to keep the measure off the ballot and acted appropriately.

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Marriage Loses in Argentina Senate 33 to 27

After a massive outpouring of public opposition, the government fought back by pressuring, bribing or simply getting out of the country, senators. What was allegedly a free vote became in effect a party loyalty vote. The Senate voted 33 to 27 to pass gay marriage. Our correspondent in Argentina writes:

"We had a sad night, although we are convinced that this is the beginning of something bigger and we are ready to fight. The best of us will show during the following years."

Maggie: "Obama Sabotages The Defense of Marriage Act"

From Maggie Gallagher's nationally syndicated column:
 
"President Obama's Justice Department colluded with gay marriage advocates to make sure the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act was overturned by the courts.
That's not just my view -- it's pretty close to the searing conclusion drawn by professor Richard Epstein in a piece for Forbes:
'This controversial case might well go up on appeal. But if so, it looks almost like collusive litigation, unless some true defender of DOMA is allowed, as an intervener, to defend the statute on the merits.'"

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CBS News Political Hotsheet Interviews NOM Founding Chairman Robert George

CBS News caught up with Princeton Professor and NOM Founding Chairman Robert George to discuss the recent DOMA ruling from Boston federal judge Joseph Tauro.

The Gay Marriage Ruling: What Now?
CBS News

Yesterday, a federal district judge in Boston declared that the federal ban on recognizing same-sex marriage - as articulated in the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, or DOMA - is unconstitutional.

The judge, Joseph Tauro, based his decision on the notion that states, not the federal government, have jurisdiction over the definition of marriage. If his decision holds up through appeals - and that's a big if - it would mean that the federal government would likely have to recognize those same-sex marriages already recognized by states, and thus provide benefits like Medicaid to same-sex partners. . . .

Robert George, a professor of jurisprudence at Princeton University as well as the chairman of the National Organization for Marriage, which works against same-sex marriage efforts, said in an interview with Hotsheet that he believes the Massachusetts decision was wrong. He cites examples in which the federal government recognizes marriage for various purposes, such as the filing of tax returns.

"I believe that the federal government does have the power to define marriage for purposes of federal law," he said - even if it doesn't have the power to define it for the purposes of state law.

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Union-Leader welcomes NOM to Manchester with more Lynch Coverage

Governor Lynch’s address to Tim Gill’s Political OutGiving conference this spring is creating quite a stir in New Hampshire – just in time for the Summer for Marriage Tour coming to Manchester.

Lynch lauded by national gay rights advocates
Manchester Union-Leader, July 13, 2010
Staff Report

CONCORD —Gov. John Lynch’s support for a same-sex marriage law in New Hampshire earned him a featured position at a recent private meeting of national leaders and donors in the gay community.

The Washington Blade has reported that Lynch was among four governors and several other elected officials who attended “a closed-door conference of wealthy LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) political donors” in mid-May in Chicago. The conference was known as “Political OutGiving,” described by the Blade as “a highly confidential event for a network of more than 200 big-stakes LGBT contributors to political campaigns.”

. . .
The conservative National Organization for Marriage earlier this year spent about $200,000 on television ads claiming that “Lynch lied” on several issues, including samesex marriage, by signing the bill into law after saying in a 2006 gubernatorial debate that “I do not support gay marriage.”

Lynch said in April he was “disgusted” with the ad and accused the out-of-state group of “meddling.” The “LynchLeads” site and a related television ad were created in response.

NOM to be in Manchester

NOM will be in Manchester on Thursday as part of a “Summer for Marriage: One Man-One Woman Tour” rally at City Hall Plaza, presumably to continue to criticize Lynch.

According to a media advisory, “The tour covers many of the key battleground states in the ongoing fight to protect and preserve marriage as one man and one woman.”

The New Hampshire-based self-described “pro-family” Cornerstone Action, the political arm of Cornerstone Policy Research, e-mailed supporters yesterday criticizing Lynch’s attendance at the gay leaders meeting and asking for donations to “keep the liberals away.”

It also asks supporters to call Lynch’s office “and tell him how hypocritical it is for him to denounce the involvement of NOM in New Hampshire one month, only to fly out to Chicago one month later to meet with the nation’s wealthiest gay donors!”

The Cornerstone group also filed a right-to-know request with the governor’s office asking for “all correspondence, invitations and travel records between Lynch and his staff related to his meeting in Chicago with Tim Gill.”

Group executive director Kevin Smith said Lynch “has officially sold out to the radical gay lobby” by attending the meeting “presumably to beg for money for his fledgling campaign.” . . .

Video footage of Argentina marriage rally

More coverage of the Argentina marriage rally, including video footage, from the Clarin newspaper (Spanish language):

http://www.clarin.com/sociedad/matrimonio_homosexual_0_297570462.html