From a SFChronicle profile:
"I really feel married," Page McBee says. On the eve of her 30th birthday, she's off for a weeklong honeymoon in the Yucatan. Michael Braithwaite, 31, her spouse since September, a former skeptic about marriage - "a patriarchal institution on its way down in flames," she says - finds her current state amusing and authentic (and, ironically, not legally sanctioned).
What did you vow?
Page: "To be myself, and to support Michael to be herself."
Michael: "To be true, and let the relationship grow."