NOM's Thomas Peters spoke with NPR this week explaining the central role children must have in the marriage debate:
Surveys suggest that kids younger than 18 in same-sex families still number fewer than a quarter-million.
"It's a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a percent," says Thomas Peters of the National Organization for Marriage, a leading group opposing same-sex marriage.
"The difference is that children raised by gay parents are very much in the media's eye," he says. "We see it on Modern Family. We see this hugely blown out of proportion. It's why, by the way, in Gallup [polls], Americans believe that a third to a fourth of Americans are gay."
In fact, studies estimate that it's more like 3 percent to 4 percent. And Peters argues that the media image of gay marriage's impact is misleading. [...]
...Still, children are making their own heartfelt case.
Eleven-year-old Grace Evans, with her long hair in a braid, testified this month as Minnesota lawmakers considered legalizing same-sex marriage.
"I want to ask you this question: Which parent do I not need — my mom or my dad?" she said. She looked up from her paper to a long silence.
And a teen who testified against gay marriage in Maryland last year received online death threats. But Peters says kids are central to this debate.
"As long as the marriage conversation remains focused on, generationally, what's best for children, I think America will find the right way forward," he says.