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"Love Isn’t Enough: 5 Reasons Why Same-Sex Marriage Will Harm Children"

 

Dr. Trayce L. Hansen is a licensed psychologist with a clinical and forensic practice:

Proponents of same-sex marriage believe the only thing children really need is love. Based on that supposition, they conclude it’s just as good for children to be raised by loving parents of the same sex, as it is to be raised by loving parents of the opposite sex. Unfortunately, that basic assumption—and all that flows from it—is false. Because love isn’t enough!

All else being equal, children do best when raised by a married mother and father. It’s within this environment that children are most likely to be exposed to the emotional and psychological experiences they need in order to thrive.

Men and women bring diversity to parenting; each makes unique contributions to the rearing of children that can’t be replicated by the other. Mothers and fathers simply are not interchangeable. Two women can both be good mothers, but neither can be a good father.

So here are five reasons why it’s in the best interest of children to be raised by both a mother and a father:

... First, mother-love and father-love—though equally important—are qualitatively different and produce distinct parent-child attachments.

... Secondly, children progress through predictable and necessary developmental stages.

... Third, boys and girls need an opposite-sexed parent to help them moderate their own gender-linked inclinations.

... Fourth, same-sex marriage will increase sexual confusion and sexual experimentation by young people.

... And fifth, if society permits same-sex marriage, it also will have to allow other types of marriage.

Certainly homosexual couples can be just as loving as heterosexual couples, but children require more than love. They need the distinctive qualities and the complementary natures of a male and female parent.

The accumulated wisdom of over 5,000 years has concluded that the ideal marital and parental configuration is composed of one man and one woman. Arrogantly disregarding such time-tested wisdom, and using children as guinea pigs in a radical experiment, is risky at best, and cataclysmic at worst.

Same-sex marriage definitely isn’t in the best interest of children. And although we empathize with those homosexuals who long to be married and parent children, we mustn’t allow our compassion for them to trump our compassion for children. In a contest between the desires of some homosexuals and the needs of all children, we can’t allow the children to lose.

Read her full article here.